"Hum, where have I wronged you? You once called me a father sincerely." Zhong Huai Shao said angrily and Zhong Yi said nothing.
"Report you don’t blame YiEr you also don’t want to think over the years, you are such as treat him say three uncle eccentric you touch conscience ask yourself don’t you eccentric! Yier, who should he talk to when he has been wronged! " He Fangqing defended Zhong Yi
By He Fangqing, Zhong Huai Shao also said nothing in anger. He was also better for their women because he consciously owed it to Mrs. Ning and Mrs. Yu.
People who are not plants and trees are equally capable of feeling, and the palms of his hands are all fleshy. At that time, Zhong Yi was not only favored by the first emperor, but also took away the attention of He Fangqing’s department. Even Zhong’s elders were the most interested in Zhong Yi, and he would be a little jealous when he was a father.
Seeing that the warm atmosphere has changed, Qin Lan smiled and said, "There is an old saying,’ Father gives birth to my mother, bows me, caresses my livestock, grows me, nurtures me, cares for me, goes in and out of my abdomen.’ Parents are more generous than the sky and thicker than the earth, and they can never repay all the talents all their lives.’ Heaven is not the most rare brother in their parents’ world,’ but the old saying also says,’ Love it without teaching, but still don’t love it; But no one is born to be a parent or know how to be a good boy. I will grope hard and hope to teach my child to be an upright and kind person. He doesn’t need to be outstanding or have much wealth. He just needs to live happily, distinguish right from wrong, and live frankly and fearlessly. "
Qin Lan’s heart said that everyone nodded frequently, and Zhong Yi squeezed her hand and said, "I hope so too!"
Zhong Huai Shao and He Fangqing fell into a long period of introspection after listening to them. It seems that they have not learned how to be parents until now, and even women are not qualified.
After a while, Zhong Jingxuan suddenly looked up at Zhong Huai Shao and He Fangqing, and then looked at Qin Lan and asked meaningfully, "That’s very kind of you to say this, my dear. Then why don’t you tell Third Grandpa about this couple’s life without arguing?"
Qin Lan’s heart seems to be Bai Zhong Jingxuan’s sudden rhetorical question. He thought for a moment and said, "I don’t know the correct answer to this question, Grandpa. Because couples have their own ways to get along with each other every day, and they don’t feel like living a life without quarreling a few times. Being a husband and wife, kindness, love and love are also a generation. Whether they are husband and wife or good friends, I think it is necessary to achieve three realms to get along for a long time."
"Oh, my heart, what are the three realms?" Not only Zhong Jingxuan is curious, but Zhong Yi is also curious. Several people with Shao also cocked up their ears. It sounds.
"The first realm is to trust each other, you trust him, and he also believes you. Whether friendship, affection or marital relationship will become tough, the second realm is to understand each other, learn to think from each other’s perspective, and be considerate of him. The highest realm is to appreciate each other, whether it is his strengths or weaknesses, and you feel good, so that you will live in harmony!" Qin Lan heart said with a smile
She also heard this passage from past lives, but she agreed with it and rose to the highest level directly after meeting Zhong Yi.
"Heart, we are the highest state, right?" Zhong Yi smiled and looked at Qin Lan’s heart.
Qin Lan heart also looked at him and nodded and smiled.
Qin Xiangzheng and asaps also looked at each other. In recent years, there has been no quarrel between two people as husband and wife, but there is not much affection. It is just plain and ordinary couples, but now that you think about it carefully, they seem to be able to believe, understand and appreciate it.
Qin Lan heart finished Zhong Huaishao heart is a little bitter because he found that he and He Fangqing had been together for more than 20 years, but even failed to achieve the first level.
After chatting in the courtyard for a while, everyone went back to the house, while Zhong Huai Shao and He Fangqing lived in the same room, but in different beds, one slept in the bed and the other slept on the couch.
In the middle of the night, heaven and earth were silent for a long time, but Huai Shao and He Fangqing were tossing and turning, and some of them couldn’t sleep well. Qin Lan’s words were like stones hitting their hearts, which caused them to be restless.
The bed collapsed across a folding screen with flowers and birds like to climb branches. Zhong Huai Shao opened his eyes in the dark and asked softly to the other side of the screen, "Sunny, are you asleep?"
On the other side of the screen, Zhong Huai Shao kept increasing the volume and asked, "Sunny, are you asleep?"
Just when he was disappointed that He Fangqing couldn’t answer, the other side of the screen came. He Fangqing had a cold voice, "What to do?"
Zhong Huai Shao paused for a moment and then breathed a sigh of relief and said slowly, "Nothing!"
Then the two men were silent for a while, and Zhong Huai Shao shouted "Sunny!"
"Do what?" This time is still a cold light answer.
"I …" Zhong Huai Shao didn’t know what to answer at the moment.
Along the way to the northwest, he and He Fangqing experienced a lot of things, more than what they experienced together in the previous twenty years. Not only did He Fangqing see the other side of him, but he also saw her differently.
"Zhong Huai Shao has something to say, just say it directly. It’s really not like you to speak hesitatingly!" He Fangqing also didn’t sleep, just sat up in the dark, and now her heart is also very upset.
"Sunny, would you be happy if you hadn’t married me?" Zhong Huai Shao always thinks it’s awkward to talk to He Fangqing like this, but shouldn’t husband and wife just talk about their confidence? This is still Qin Xiangzheng telling him!
I don’t know! After so many years, He Fangqing once imagined many choices and endings, but it seems that each one has variables.
Zhong Huai Shao’s face was a joy after hearing this, because she said "I don’t know" instead of imagining the answer in her heart.
"What about you? Are you happy to marry me? " He Fangqing so ask Zhong Huai shao for the first time.
"I wouldn’t be happy if I didn’t marry you. After I married you, I was happy but more painful, but I don’t regret it!" Zhong Huai Shao still overbearingly said
"Since you and I are both suffering, why not let go?" He fangqing asked with a sigh
"Ha ha!" Zhong Huai Shao seems to laugh at himself. "I can’t let go. Because I let go, I never have a chance to walk into your heart again. Now I don’t expect you to have me in your heart. I hope we can live as quietly as this ordinary couple."
"You should know very well in your heart that I never thought you might have hated before, but now the hatred has faded. I want to stay with Yi Er, Lan Xin and their children for the rest of my life … leave me alone!" He Fangqing tone some pleading.
She has been entangled with each other for more than 20 years, and now she doesn’t want to continue to entangle. She has never loved Zhong Huaishao, but she won’t have any hatred or resentment afterwards. Maybe she can live in peace with each other, but it is still difficult for her to like him.
"Sunny, you know it’s impossible. No matter how you treat me, I will always be the same to you. Maybe I have done many wrong things for more than 20 years to make you misunderstand and hate me, but I want to change now. I want to take the most correct way to get close to your place. Please don’t learn to trust me, understand me and appreciate me when you refuse me."
Zhong Huai Shao’s different tone made He Fangqing shocked and lost again. She didn’t speak again and didn’t know when she would fall asleep.
When two people meet again after getting up in the morning the next day, I don’t know that He Fangqing hid from Zhong Huaishao. When the hatred in her heart suddenly decreased, she would feel a little uneasy when she faced Zhong Huaishao again, but she didn’t know what this anxiety was.
After breakfast, Qin Lanxin and asaps and He Fangqing continued to gather in the courtyard to make baby clothes, but Qin Lanxin found that He Fangqing had always been very worried.
"Mom, what’s wrong with you?" Qin Lanxin asked.
"Ah, nothing!" He Fangqing smiled and said
She also made the jumpsuit for her children after Qin Lan’s heart, and her embroidery is also very good, because I don’t know whether it is a boy or a girl, she plans to make more and always wear it.
"Sister Fang Qing, I think you are a little mentally ill. Did you not sleep well last night?" Asaps asked with some concern.
"I did sleep a little late last night. It doesn’t matter!" He Fangqing barely smiled and said